librans will overlook deficits in their partners in return for love. the sentiment of emotional security and the feeling of being needed neutralizes any shortcomings. sometimes this leniency can turn dangerous, especially in violent situations 

The best you can hope for in a relationship is to find
someone whose flaws are the sort you don’t mind. It is
futile to look for someone who has no flaws, or someone
who is capable of significant change; that sort of person
exists only in our imaginations.

—Scott Adams, God’s Debris: A Thought Experiment (via quotes-shape-us)

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If pain must come, may it come quickly. I have a life to live, and I need to live it in the best possible. If he has to make a choice, may he make it now. Then I will either wait for him or forget him. Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worst kind of suffering.

Paulo Coelho (via psych-facts)

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